by Shara Gardner

Exactly how do we create our own reality?

There is no exact method, but we can say this...

All energy travels in waves. When we want something, we send a wave of desire out into the universe and we get a wave of matching energy back... but sometimes the returning energy does not deliver exactly what we expected. Why is that?

So, I had this super interesting chat with my friend, who’s into journalism but also gets the spiritual stuff. We ended up in a friendly debate about whether we can really create our own reality. He’s all about facts and evidence, and was ready to shut down my un-proven metaphysical claims, while I’m here always exploring the endless possibilities and what-ifs of the Universe. We didn’t see eye to eye on much, but that’s the fun of it, right? And this also symbolizes the climate that prevails in the world today. Sadly, we live in a world where people choose sides and defend their opinions sometimes to death. They are ready to punish, reject, and exclude others because of their beliefs. As a spiritual visionary, my greatest dream is that we could all live peacefully with our own thoughts and leanings without suffering retribution. Until that stops happening in politics, religion, business, and health, we might never travel common ground with any of our adversaries... but I can dream, right? This is the reality I am engaged in... dreams that create realities.

Back to our intense debate…

In our debate, my friend and I represented two sides: the solid, fact-based approach versus a more imaginative, possibility-filled one. We ended up appreciating our differences, seeing them as a way to expand our own views rather than as a barrier. This conversation with my journalist friend was a deep dive into how different our perspectives can be. But also, how much the same we both are.

We both love exploring the unknown, just in different ways. He’s searching for clear-cut provable truths and details to share with the world, while I’m on a quest for personal insights and collective wisdom to share as light beams to those who are open. Both approaches are valuable and add to the richness of our understanding of the world.

It’s not just about his journalism versus my spirituality that keeps us from agreeing. It’s about those who stick like glue to the "facts" versus us dreamers who believe in the power of possibility in our considerations. He is one who sticks to the proven, and I am one who drifts across the Universe. Fortunately, we both ended up learning a ton from each other, especially about how personal beliefs, feelings, and experiences shape our reality, his worldview and mine. Our lively conversation was a reminder that embracing the unknown can lead to some pretty amazing discoveries. And in a sense, amazingly, we collaborated in creating a new reality between us… actually a third possibility where facts can live with possibilities and all perspectives carry valid aspects of truth. Now, that's common ground!

The Journalist and The Dreamer

Along the way, I brought up Nassim Haramein, a brilliant thinker and cosmologist, who often has ideas that are out beyond the beyond. That's a good thing. He inspires deep contemplation. So he shared a cool perspective on creating reality. He says It’s not just about asking the Universe for what we want; it’s about recognizing that the creation process is a two-way journey. He says our desires travel through the Universe and mix with the energies and desires of everything and everyone else – and what comes back is a blend of it all that honors all to some extent. That means not only are our own desires factored in, but also how they blend and affect the dreams and wishes of the entire Universe. In his perspective, our desires or our timelines might not match our exact request; but if we are patient and open-minded we will see that a version of our original request will manifest. And that is exactly the way I experience creating my own reality. 

When I proposed Nassim's idea to my friend his first response was to do a "fact check" on the guy to find out if he could trust him or his information. Oh well, I tried...

I did go into a little guided imagery to explain the mystical process as Nassim had shared. I explained that we could drive our spiritual vehicles down a cosmic highway, circle the Universal Creation Loop (like a roadway round-about) and return back with a new bundle of possibilities. Haha! While he was amused with my fantasy explanation along with the colorful visions of a luminescent Creation Place, he stuck to his “who-what-when-where-how” orientation and ultimately could find no room in his mind for my simplified and colorful explanation of Sacred Creation through a God or Source round-about, which we barely understand. Yet, I will follow the rabbit hole and remain fascinated by the idea that we enter the “feed-forward” loop and the Universe gives us a version of what we asked for on its “feed-back” loop. Now, as a metaphysician, that’s a super highway I can believe in. Oh yes! I can easily travel that highway to co-create with ALL, not just dictate my individual wishes.

So, while the idea of creating our own reality is complex, it’s also super exciting. It means there’s always more to explore, more to learn, and endless possibilities for what we can experience. And even when things don’t turn out exactly as we hoped, it’s all part of a bigger, magical process we’re all a part of.

Wow! As I wrap this up, I have to say, I agree with Nassim. We are all creating at the same time. And here is my biggest shock… I had been playing with Artificial Intelligence when I made the images for my newsletters. A.I. does exactly the same thing. I never get exactly what I asked for because the creation is made using whatever shared information and imagery exists in the collective consciousness at that moment and within the thousands of images I keep in my own files. When I ask the Bot to imagine my creation, it generally gives me back something that looks like a magical, fantasy rendition, because that is who I am and that is how my desires appear in terms of energy. You can see my dream vision above, and the Creation Highway below. See, the two-way super highway shows my dreams are the vehicles moving into the Creation Field. Then, when my wishes are "developed," they return to me on the opposite side of the highway (the feed-back loop) bringing new magic potentials to my awareness.

Okay... if you are still puzzled about whether we can create our own reality? I say we can. But it will likely be modified. Sometimes we need to wait. Sometimes we need to adapt. Sometimes we have to keep trying. Sometimes we believe we need to suffer for our dreams. But sometimes we get exactly what we wanted. In my way of thinking, it never hurts to put it out there on the "reality express" and see what returns because the loop is continuous and in my humble experience, energy sent out always comes back.

Okay...so  if you are still puzzled about whether we can create our own reality? I say we can. But it will likely be modified. Sometimes we need to wait. Sometimes we need to adapt. Sometimes we have to keep trying. Sometimes we believe we need to suffer for our dreams. But sometimes we get exactly what we wanted. In my way of thinking, it never hurts to put it out there on the "reality express" and see what returns!

Written by Shara Gardner

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